Study The Word Of God Daily! - Same Sex Marriage?
WHY SAME-SEX MARRIAGE WILL ALWAYS BE ILLEGAL
California's Judges are forcing the issue down our throats, But they'll never truly change the law. By Joel Hilliker
In 2000, NEARLY TWO THIRDS OF Californians passed a law forbidding homosexual marriage. In May this year, a mere four individuals killed that law, nullified the will of the people, and shoved open the door to same- sex unions in California. The "weddings" started June 16. Massachusetts passed a simular law in 2003, but a statute prevents non-residents from marrying there. Not so with California. "Couples" from around the country can come to the Golden State to be "wed" - and then return to their home states ready to launch legal battles to have their unions officially recognized there as well.
This judgment is one of the most hostile attacks on traditional marriage ever mounted. Remarkably, however, in the face of this monumental redefinition of the most important institution in society, virtually no one is standing up and articulating an effective and credible defence.
Those commentators who speak out about the decision generally focus on the thwarting of democracy by four radically activist California Supreme Court judges. They raise concerns over the possible economic fallout. They bemoan the prospect of the bizarre illogic of the decision leading toward eventual legal acceptance of polygamy, pedophilia, or other unorthodox 'family' arrangements. They wonder aloud why California couldn't have just left well enough alone with the "domestic partner-ships" already permitted under state law. In other words, aggressive homosexual activists have been so successful in promoting their agenda that this argument is taking place-and being lost-on the fringes of a battlefield on which they have already planted their rainbow-colored flag.
IT DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE
A USA Today/Gallup Poll revealed that an astonishing 63 percent of Americans say same-sex "marriage" is "strictly a private decision" between two people, and that the state shouldn't interfere. Apparently the majority view is, since homosexuals marrying doesn't prevent heterosexuals from marrying, what difference does it make? This promotion of personal license over the broader interests of society is a deadly error.
Evidence is plenteous showing the benefits of traditional marriage to both husband and wife, as well as society at large-and the high costs associated with its dissolution. Time and again, studies have shown the enormous advantages to children-in personal safety, academic performance, financial well-being, emotional stability, self-respect, and assimilation into law-abiding adult life, among other things-of growing up under the same roof with both biological parents. In other words, societal stability directly depends on the greatest number of children possible growing up in a home with both a father and a mother to whom they are biologiclly related.
Marriage is the most effective way of guaranteeing children grow up in this favorable environment. For the sake of our children and our society, we should be doing all we can to promote stable marriages-in the true sense of the term. However, under an onslaught of no-fault divorce and other anti-family pressures, marriages are falling apart at alarming rates. In just the past few generations, every millennia-long tradition regarding marriage-all of which, it should be mentioned, were based on God-ordained laws-has been challenged; the respective roles of husband as guide and provider, and wife as helpmeet and homemaker; the importance of abstaining from sex outside of marriage; the authority of parents over their children. As these principles were contested, a negative cycle began. Rejection of these principles produced bad marriages and fueled the tendency to question the institution's fundamental nature. The result was a general, misguided dissatisfaction with marriage itself and an inevitable lack of appreciation for and understanding of it. The current dispute over the very idea of marriage involving one man and one woman is a measure of just how deep this misunderstanding has grown.
The legitimization of homosexual unions-as the jewel in the crown of a host of initiatives aimed at drawing more and more people into the homosexual lifestyle-is moving 180 degrees opposite the family stability we desperately need to be encouraging. This goes far deeper than the mere fact that same-sex relationships-even "marriages"- are two to three times likelier to dissolve than heterosexual relationships. It's more than just that a child in such a home cannot grow up with both biological parents and is deprived of the influence at home of strong role models of both sexes.
WHY MALE AND FEMALE?
Why Male and Female? Have you ever thought about that? This is a conundrum that both evolutionists and creationists must wrestle with. For the person who doesn't believe in a Creator, it requires explaining how by natural means-not by design but by accident-humanity (and virtually all living creatures) came to exist in two distinct groups, different yet the same, mutually dependent upon the other for procreation. But even for the creationist, the question can be equally puzzling. Why did God make male and female?
Scripture shows that in creating humankind in His own image and likeness (Genesis 1:26), God made the conscious decision to devide us into two groups: male and female (verse 27). Why? This is an important question to contemplate. Try to push from your mind the politically correct falsehood that there are no differences between the two. Consider this realistically.
The fact is that the relentless drive over the past half century in particular to equalize the sexes has completely obscured and destroyed the very deep and important reasons for God's creative implementation of sex differences! Homosexuality, in effect treats this essential component of creation as if it were mere decoration-even a mistake on God's part. At best, it trivializes and neutalizes the formation of gender. Can you acknowledge the possibility that sex is not an accident of evolution, nor an arbitrary ornament on creation, but a conscious, deliberate choice with design and intent made by a super-intelligent Creator?
Are you willing to consider the reasoning, the logic, in His decision? This God who reveals Himself in the Bible claims that His thoughts are higher than your thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). Is it possible you have allowed your mind to be prejudiced against His superior thing by simple peer pressure-the intellectial coercion of a society that is almost wholly hostile toward its Creator?
WHERE DID MARRIAGE COME
Why marriage? Do you know where marriage originated? Most do not. Marriage is not a mere tradition. Marriage is actually a sacred institution, originated and established by God at the creation of humankind. It was created for specific purposes and designed to function according to definite laws. Those laws are as absolute and inexorable as the physical governing the universe. If they are broken, unhappiness and dissatisfaction result.
God created sexual attraction, to draw a man and a woman into a love relationship. He created marriage-a binding covenant relationship with prescribed, God-ordained roles (e.g. Genesis 2:18,21-25; Ephesians 5:29-33; 1 Timothy 5:8), and gave laws confining the use of sex to that relationship (e.g. Exodus 20:14, 17). He intended this covenant relationship to bring stability into our lives, to teach us faithfulness and loyalty, and to give each mate the opportunity to learn to live unselfihly with another person, different from himself or herself, as a harmonious team.
In addition, God created our anatomies so that this two-person relationship is what generates children. He designed the human development process to occur slowly-much more slowly than in animals-in order to make family life necessary: Children are completely dependent upon their parents, and parents must love, nurture, protect, educate and discipline their children. He gave laws and principles governing that parent-child relationship (e.g. Exodus 20:12). Why? To one who doesn't understand God's purpose for mankind, it might seem somewhat arbitrary. Why male and female? Why marriage? Why do we reproduce through sex? Why children? Why family? But the answer is clear to anyone who understands the truth revealed in the Bible but not generally understood-that of the incredible human potential.
FAMILY'S ULTIMATE PURPOSE
The way God designed male, female, marriage and children, the family unit naturally creates a government stucture patterned after the God Family pattern. God designed all of these things the way He did to prepare us for eternal life in His Family! The truth of this reality far surpasses the insipid view of an afterlife spent sitting on a cloud strumming a harp. God is about to establish a Kingdom, here on earth, ruling all nations, with literal positions of king-priesthood to be filled by human beings transformed into Spirit-born members of the God Family! (Request our book The Incredible Human Potential for a thorough biblical explanation of this truth. Send an email to: request@thetrumpet,com for your free copy of this book.). This is why the human family is so critical in God's mind. We need family, as God designed it, in order to prepare for positions in God's Family! Done right, marriage is intended to teach spiritual lessons about the God Family. A child growing up in a godly family learns spiritual lessons. If a family is run the way God intended it to be run, then there are God-plane dynamics at work-living lessons in God's government and family love.
There is a war being waged over marriage and family. On one side are those trying to preserve God's design; on the other are those trying to destroy God's design. Proponents of homosexual "marriage" overlook, ignore, dismiss and ridicule any evidence that exposes the damage their agenda produces. In their eyes, the deepest sacrifices to society are worth the resulting gains in personal licence. But that licence hurts both the individuals who indulge in it and society as a whole. It deeply violates the law of God-an eternal, binding law that no human being can alter. Time will prove conclusively that the more California or any other state moves to permit what God has condemned, the more misery, strife, bitterness and unhappiness it will generate. In the end, the increasing social fragmentation it brings will result in societal ruin.
SHOULD CALIFORNIA DECLARE HOMOSEXUALITY 'MARRIAGE' IN LIGHT OF HIV/AIDS DATA?
On World AIDS Day, Accountability Needed in California. COLLUMBUS, Ohio, Dec. 1 /Christian Newswire/ - For two decades, the U.S. has done virtually nothing to arrest the behavior causing most cases of HIV/AIDS in this country: homosexual sex.
In California, homosexuals are now demanding behaviors be considered "marriage," even if it means subverting a lawful vote.
Let's look at California and HIV/AIDS:
1. In California, 67% of HIV/AIDS cases are directly linked to male homosexual behavior, with another 9% involving the combined risks of males having sex with males (MSM) and injection drug use (IDU)( Source: California Department of Public Health).
2. California has experienced 69,000 HIV/AIDS deaths due to male/male sex since the beginning of the epidemic (From CDPH data).
3. In California, nearly 62,000 people are now living with HIV or AIDS (Source CDC 2006 Surveillance Report). Applying the current trend that at least two-thirds of these cases result from MSM, approximately 41,000 infected males who have sex with males now live in California, eligible to legitimize this epidemic through "marriage"if the California Supreme Court rules against the Proposition 8 voters' decision.
See the page "An Anatomy of Aids."